I have a weird name. Well, that’s not true. My name is probably the most common female Muslim name – Fatema. But growing up in a majority non-Muslim country, I learned to answer to various mispronunciations of my name. After high school, I decided to start telling people how to correctly pronounce my name when I introduced myself, instead of giving them the default, easier mispronunciation. (…which did lead to a few awkward conversations when people realized they had been pronouncing my name wrong after knowing me for almost a decade. Oops!)
Anyway, all that to say, names are important! As parents, we put a lot of thought into our child’s name. As Muslim parents, we choose names of the heroes of our religion and/or names with wonderful meanings. Often, these names end up being ones that people struggle to pronounce. Sometimes, these names are abandoned in favor of a nickname or a more common name.
I want to try to foster pride in these names, these Muslim identities, especially in the current political climate.
I want to inspire our kids to embrace their name, and make the names something to aspire to.
InshaAllah this prompts some interesting discussions about your child’s name and leads to their increased appreciation for their name. I’d love to hear how it goes – leave a comment below!!
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